I've been reading at another place that JBR wet the bed about once a week, enough to have an extra bed in her room, pull ups to sleep in, and Fleet even had to bring her wet panties home in a bag from having an accident. That sounds like she had a problem to me, yet John says he didn't know she wet the bed and Jams excuses it by saying Patsy dealt with it and didn't bother John..........."perhaps in an abusive home the father would be aware of the bedwetting " blah blah blah, but not in this home or some such nonsence. Now, to me this sounds more like Patsy was trying to keep this from John. I would be discussing the health of my children with their father along with having them checked out to make sure there wasn't a bladder or kidney problem. At the least ,I would probably complain to the father about cleaning a wet bed once in a while, ya know , it's in our blood to make sure our husbands know how hard we work. So why would Patsy hide this from John? or John lie about not knowing? How perfect can your mariage be if one partner is in the dark about things like his children? somethings not right here.